Stop leaking your life force. Choose yourself. Create the life that is actually yours and expresses who you are.HERE are the four pillars of Mastering Your Energy.
Pillar 1 — Self-Sovereignty－How to Stop Abandoning Yourself
Stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable. Mastering your energy is your primary focus in life. The end result will be the embodiment of yourself as the Creator of your life experience. It is one of the most personally consequential things you can learn, because it touches everything you say you want—success, meaningful relationships, freedom, spirituality, creativity, and a life that actually feels like your own.Discovering how to master your energy connects you to self-love and setting those all important boundaries. Your external life is influenced by how you direct, protect and embody your energy for relationships and spirituality.
You are not dependent upon anything outside yourself to know how to live your life. Learning how to read your own star map and work with your personal astrology can be a way to read the energy of your life patterns unfolding throughout your life. Astrology can show you the weather. Your intuition helps you navigate it. Intuition is often backpack, meaning you may not receive guidance until it is needed in the moment. Though how your intuitive voice works is also something only you can learn to attune to and read for yourself.
Pillar 2 — Energy Leaks－Where Is Your Energy Really Going?
Where is your attention, emotion, guilt, resentment and over-giving draining your creative power? If you're asking yourself any of the following questions then you are definitely leaking your energy like a sieve which is a one way flow of energy. It can never bring you love and can only drain you.- “Why am I exhausted?”
- “Why do I keep giving everything away?”
- “Why does everyone else seem to come first?”
- “Why am I working so hard but not getting the life I want?”
- “Why do I feel guilty saying no?”
- “Why do I keep rescuing people?”
- “Why do I know what I want but don't act on it?”
Many women have been hoodwinked into thinking standing up for ourselves is selfish. This is a cultural challenge.
In this model of how things work in the world self-abandonment masquerades as goodness.
Choosing yourself isn't narcissism. It's stewardship of your life force.
Pillar 3 — Divine Feminine Rising－Reclaim Your Power, Energy & Self Trust
The Divine Feminine isn't just something happening out there in the world. It's changing what you're willing to tolerate in your own life, here and now.
The Divine Feminine Rising gives you:
- boundaries
- self-respect
- intuition
- embodiment
- ability to receive
- creativity
- sovereignty
- relationships
- money
- leadership
- mothering/caregiving patterns
- no longer over-giving
Protect the energy your future requires.
The Divine Feminine is practical and empowers the feminine in us all male and female.
Become unavailable for the life you no longer want.
Jupiter trine Saturn - Life Opportunity
This rare three-part window for rebuilding your life is opening. Here's how to use it.
Jupiter expands while Saturn gives that expansion structure, making this trine about turning possibility into something real rather than simply wishing something will happen. Saturn requires hard work and application to make the most your opportunities available during this period of expansion.
There are three peak dates for this energy for manifesting new possibilities into your reality.
The first Jupiter－Saturn Rx trine is exact August 31, 2026, with Jupiter at 13° Leo and Saturn at 13° Aries. It repeats April 3 and July 11, 2027.
On August 31st, Saturn is Retrograde while Jupiter is Direct and conjunct the South Node. Read my article: South Node in Leo: A Powerful Time for Emotional Healing and Soul Evolution to learn all about the significance of this placement.
Now you are releasing old identities and programs while receiving new possibilities for your future self. Saturn is absorbing the images surfacing at this time.
The Second Jupiter Rx－Saturn trine exact April 3, 2027 at 17°
Jupiter is Retrograde and about to station Direct on the 13th of April. You've been working hard, maybe with little to show for it while Jupiter has been Retrograde since mid-December 2026. But, if delayed results was the case, things are just about to shift forward you.
The Third and Final Jupiter－Saturn trine July 11, 2027 at 27°
Now is the time when you can begin to see results (if delayed) from your hard work. Signs of the progress you've been working hard for begin to show up and bear fruit. This forward momentum will continue to build into the summer months. On July 26, 2027 Jupiter enters Virgo and this area of your life will grow expand. Though Jupiter's placement in Virgo won't have the year-long blessing of Jupiter's trine to Saturn available in 2026.
Ylang Ylang is a beautiful oil for your, “Calling in the Divine Feminine” ritual. Its aroma evokes feminine sensuality, receptivity, softness, emotional openness, and embodied presence.
Inhaling the scent of Ylang Ylang can help you awaken and inhabit the Divine Feminine already present within you. The beautiful scent of Ylang Ylang will also help you to embody mastery of your energy and self-sovereignty.
Calling in the Divine Feminine Ritual－Reclaiming Your Receptive, Intuitive Power
You will need:
- 1-3 drops of Ylang Ylang essential oil
- A diffuser, personal inhaler, or suitably diluted in a carrier oil
- A quiet space where you won't be disturbed
Before beginning, take a moment to acknowledge what you've been carrying for other people.
Place drops of Ylang Ylang essential oil in a diffuser or use it in your personal inhaler or properly diluted in a carrier oil. Close your eyes and take several slow breaths.
As you inhale, imagine yourself calling your energy home and a radiant flame glowing within you.
Place your hand over your heart and say:
✧ I call my energy home.
✧ I choose myself.
✧ I honor my intuition.
✧ I trust my inner knowing.
✧ I release the need to abandon myself to make others feel comfortable.
✧ I allow myself to receive.
✧ I allow myself to be fully who I am.
Then sit quietly for a few moments.
Notice what happens in your body.
Don't search for an answer. Receive whatever comes into your awareness.
Ask yourself:
Where am I giving my energy away when I really want to choose myself?
And then:
What would change if I trusted myself enough to stop giving my energy away?
The Divine Feminine isn't something you have to become. It is something you remember that you are.
SHOP → Ylang Ylang becomes the sensory anchor for your remembering—the invitation to soften, receive, listen inward, and allow your own energy to become your guide.
That's an important antidote to the fear that choosing yourself means you're being selfish.
Choosing yourself doesn't take something away from the world. It puts you in a position to contribute from fullness instead of depletion.
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